Whose Shoes Are You Wearing? 12 Steps to Becoming the Woman You Really Want to Be

I have to tell you: I feel like I’ve been in labor and nursing a newborn for the last few months. Late nights, early mornings, and waking up in the middle of the night at times all in preparation to give birth to my very first book that I co-authored with my dynamic sister, Julian. And yesterday, we finally announced what we’ve been hard at work on: Whose Shoes Are You Wearing? 12 Steps to Uncovering the Woman You Really Want to Be.

The book will officially launch in May. So over the next several weeks, Julian and I will share some sneak peeks into what you will gain when you embark on this transformational journey with us to find out…whose shoes are you wearing?


  • Are you stuck: finding yourself living the definition of insanity all day, every day?
  • Do you have a hard time saying “No” to people, things and situations that drain you?
  • Are you allowing unhealthy relationships to block your blessings?
  • Do you struggle to reconcile your cultural heritage to the woman you want to become?
  • Are you still waiting for Prince Charming to come along and complete you before you can really be happy?


If you answered yes to any of these questions then you need this book. Julian B. Kiganda and Christine St. Vil are two sisters known for being Bold & Fearless Moms ‘N Charge. After having conquered their own personal and professional struggles to finally walk in their purpose, they’re giving you their most powerful insights to move you along your own path to uncovering your God-given purpose. In Whose Shoes Are You Wearing?12 Steps to Uncovering the Woman You Really Want to Be, these no-nonsense siblings take you through key steps to help you create the unprecedented transformation you want to see in your own life. They draw upon their own life changing experiences—from ending unhealthy relationships to surviving unimaginable trauma—which are closely intertwined with their East African upbringing. With practical action steps included at the end of each chapter, Whose Shoes shows you how to walk boldly and fearlessly in your own shoes regardless of the shoes you’ve been walking in.

With a generous dose of humor, solid spiritual principles and a “keepin’ it real” attitude, this book will become a staple in your library as you embark upon your own journey to discover the shoes God meant for you.



Be sure to pay Julian a visit over at Bold & Fearless 


Eye Imagery Studios for the fantastic photography: www.eye-imagery.com

Nubian Hueman for the beautiful contemporary African clothing: www.nubianhueman.com

Miranda E. Lee for the gorgeous make-up: www.mirandaelee.com

The Style Medic for the on-point styling: www.thestylemedic.com


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  • T. Espinoza
    February 20, 2014 at 3:52 PM

    Ahhhh! I’m so excited for you guys! This is gonna be EPIC!
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    • Christine St.Vil
      February 25, 2014 at 12:37 AM

      Woooohoooooo Thanks T!! We are super excited and grateful for all of your styling assistance 🙂

  • Andrea
    February 26, 2014 at 1:34 PM

    Can’t wait to get my copies! Yes, copies…I will be gifting because I KNOW it will inspire and encourage. Congratulations!

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    March 24, 2014 at 5:16 PM

    Runway you are so awesome! Congrats on the books!

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