10 Tips for Families Considering Homeschool

My husband and I officially decided to homeschool last year. At the time, it was a scary decision because we just weren’t sure how we would make it all work. He works at night, I work from home and we had three kids (ages 2, 4 & 6) who we were now going to be responsible for educating.

While we are newbies at this, we’ve learned some things over the last eight months. I can also officially say that we’re going to stick with it as long as absolutely possible. It’s such a rewarding experience to have a hand at your kids excelling in their studies (our Kindergartner is learning on a second and third grade level in reading, spelling and math, and our pre-schooler is reading, writing and understands addition). While we know this way of life isn’t for everyone, I wanted to share some tips that could help those who are in the “debating” phase where we were over a year ago.

1. Do your research.

A year prior to making the official decision to homeschool our kids, my husband and I started really looking into our options. We found articles online, reached out to people who were already doing it and put a plan into place in regards to how we would make it work.

2. Stand your ground.

People will try and give you 20 questions as to why you have chosen to homeschool. Some of them with good intentions, and some with the intention of making you feel “less than” or crazy for doing it. Either way, it’s not really any of their business as long as you have your own reasons. Understanding your “why” will make things much easier to navigate through the naysayers.

3. Don’t try to compare: Homeschool to traditional school.

Since my kids had already been going to private school (my son for three years) prior to our decision to homeschool, that’s the only perception of “schooling” and teaching that we had in mind. We had to realize that as their teachers, we were now making the rules. And no, we didn’t have to have them “in school” for six hours a day. We could plan the lessons and finish their school work in two or three hours and that was okay.

4. Don’t try to compare: How one family homeschools to yours.

There is a such thing as doing too much research and I may have gone a little overboard on this one. I wanted to adapt to everyone else’s homeschooling styles, and create the same files, documents, handouts, projects, rules, routines, etc. It was exhausting. I had to realize that our family was unique in our homeschool dynamics. Other families’ needs weren’t necessarily our needs so we had to take all of the little pieces of info we had, and create our own system.

5. Find and build your own support system.

With all the research and reaching out to other people, and meetings about homeschool, we were able to find a homeschool co-op group. We looked into two different ones, and ultimately chose the one that we felt would best fit our needs and that of our children. We found a community of support and have never felt alone (especially with 70 other families) since starting this new journey. The kids enjoy going “to school” once a week and taking classes with kids of all ages.

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If you’ve considered homeschooling, what are your biggest worries?

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    Barbara Dixon
    March 29, 2014 at 8:48 PM

    Thanks for sharing! My biggest concern is since I am a teacher, is that I will try to make the homeschool environment the same way my classroom is or feel like a failure if things aren't always in order.

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      Christine St.Vil
      March 29, 2014 at 10:18 PM

      That is a big concern that I’ve heard from a lot of people Barbara, you are not alone. Our 6 yr old had been in public pre-school for 3 years before we started homeschool. So it was hard to understand initially that we don’t have to always follow the traditional way of teaching. Younger kids especially learn so much by doing, so we turn everyday tasks into learning opportunities (like cooking, doing laundry, etc.).

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    That Girl Shelley
    March 30, 2014 at 3:19 PM

    My biggest concern is figuring the right structure and managing my work around school. My kids have never been to a traditional school (I am a work at home mom).

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    Moms 'N Charge
    August 4, 2014 at 5:43 AM

    Hey Barbara, I think that is probably the biggest challenge even for me and I've never taught. But since my son was in a traditional school, initially it was hard not to want to do everything like they did. The beauty of homeschooling is that you have so much more flexibility and the fact that you pick the curriculum/schedule that works best for you and your family.

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    Christine St.Vil
    August 4, 2014 at 5:45 AM

    Hey That Girl Shelley (for some reason, I never got a notification for this sorry for the delay)! I'm a WAHM as well and it can def be a challenge. But the great thing about HS is that you're not tied to one schedule. It can be as flexible as you need it to be (if you need to teach in the morning one day and the afternoon or evening the next, you can).

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    November 1, 2020 at 8:30 AM

    This is an amazing article on homeschooling. Thanks for sharing.

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    Zoe Campos
    May 4, 2021 at 9:08 AM

    Similar to your situation, I’m also not sure how we’ll be able to make homeschooling work for our kids. However, I think that it is the safest option for us considering the situation caused by the pandemic. It might be a good idea to invest time in checking available curriculums for their age brackets.

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